223 Cómo evitar la frustración al aprender inglés

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Hi, I am Georgiana, your English teacher and founder of SpeakEnglishPodcast.com. My mission is to help you speak English fluently.

Okay, let's get started!

Learning to speak English is not as simple as studying for a couple of days. Can you imagine? In one month, we could learn 15 new languages, or 14 if we are lazy 🙂

If your goal is to become fluent, it takes some time. For example, my Fluency course has 20 units. And you have to dedicate a minimum of one week per unit. However, I assure you that if you follow the instructions, your fluency will improve dramatically by the end of the course.

During the learning process, some students lose patience and become frustrated. They all have an initial phase of high motivation due to the novelty and transition to a plateau phase that leads to frustration when they do not see steady improvement.

It is common for frustrated learners to blame themselves, saying things like:

"I am not good at learning languages",

"As an adult it is almost impossible to learn",

"I don't have the memory to remember all this vocabulary",

"I make a fool of myself when I speak.”

This kind of mindset is dangerous because it affects motivation, and the chances of giving up are very high.

Other students blame the method. For example, they say to themselves, "This method is useless", or “I am wasting my time", "This is pointless", etc.

They buy many courses in the hope that the latest one will be the definitive one, the one that works.

And I am not against discontinuing an English course if the method is not effective. I don't want to give away names, but large companies are more concerned about perceived value than real value, and some of these systems are very superficial. In other words, they do not allow you to learn in an effective and lasting way.

You may already know this, but my system is specifically focused on speech development.

In addition, the courses feature question-and-answer exercises that help the student to speak from day one.

So, I believe the key to avoiding frustration is not to focus on results but on learning time.

Imagine you are in Unit 8 of the Fluency Course. Instead of evaluating your progress because you haven't finished yet, which is also very subjective, simply keep track of the number of hours you spend. You can, for example, use a spreadsheet and write down the time you are listening on a weekly basis.

This way, you take the pressure off yourself and focus on what really matters and what you can control: the time spent.

And if you are not convinced of your progress, you can listen to an earlier lesson, for example, unit 2 or 3. You'll find that they seem easier than before. This means you are making progress, but as I said, the most important thing is to accumulate hours of listening.

Also, keep in mind that our brain needs quite a few days to assimilate new patterns, sounds, words and expressions.

Think about how you learned your native language. Studies indicate that when we are young, we spend about two years listening to our parents before we can articulate sentences. This is called the "silent period" because the brain is learning and assimilating. Imagine a young child thinking, "Wow, I can't articulate words, so I will cover my ears so I won't listen."

And finally, don't forget to enjoy yourself! Take listening to the lessons more as a game than an obligation. I try to make the content fun, entertaining, and a bit absurd in the course lessons. I do this so that it won't be boring and you can remember better.

In short, focus more on what you can control: the time you spend listening to the lessons, and try to enjoy the stories with slightly crazy characters.

I hope this helps you on your way to fluency in English.

Now, let’s practice.


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Primera versión

Punto de vista en tercera persona

James started learning English motivated and hoping to speak fluently. Jane began studying English with enthusiasm and the desire of speaking effortlessly.

Halfway through the course, James became frustrated and stopped learning English. Similarly, halfway through the course, Jane also became frustrated and stopped studying English.

Because he did not finish the course, James could only start sentences in English but could not finish them. On the other hand, Jane could only finish sentences in English but could not start them.

One day James and Jane met in a coffee shop. As they waited in line to order coffee, they began to speak English.

James would start the sentences, and Jane would finish them. So, they fell in love, got married, and had seven children. Although they eventually finished the English course, James would continue to start the sentences, and Jane would finish them. Just because she always liked to have the last word.

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Segunda versión

Punto de vista de James

I started learning English motivated and hoping to become fluent. A girl named Jane started studying English with enthusiasm and the desire of speaking effortlessly, like me.

Halfway through the course, I got frustrated and stopped learning English. Halfway through the course, Jane also got frustrated and stopped studying English. I guess we were very impatient and didn't see much progress.

Since I didn't finish the course, I could only start English sentences, but I didn't know how to finish them. On the other hand, Jane could only finish sentences in English but could not start them.

One day I met Jane in a coffee shop. As we waited in line to order coffee, we started talking in English. I would start the sentences, and Jane would finish them - how great she was! So, we fell in love, got married, and had seven children. Even though we finally finished the English course, I kept starting the sentences, and Jane always finished them. Just because she always liked to have the last word.

Thanks for listening, and I’ll see you in the next episode.

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frustration

malestar o irritación provocados por una dificultad o por la falta de progreso.

fluent

capaz de hablar con soltura y facilidad.

halfway through

a mitad de una actividad o de un periodo.

impatient

poco dispuesto a esperar a que lleguen los resultados.

make progress

mejorar o avanzar hacia un objetivo.

focus on

dedicar la mayor parte de tu atención a algo.

control

la capacidad de influir o dirigir algo.

keep going

continuar a pesar de la dificultad.


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Georgiana, creadora del Speak English Now Podcast

TU PROFESORA DE INGLÉS

Hola, soy Georgiana.

Como creadora de ProfesoraIngles.com y del podcast Speak English Now, me alegra que estés aquí. Sigue escuchando, repitiendo y hablando en voz alta. Poco a poco, el inglés te resultará cada vez más natural. Y si tienes alguna pregunta sobre el podcast, mis cursos o cómo aprender inglés, no dudes en contactarme. Siempre estaré encantada de saber de ti.

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